To Gather or Not To Gather...

COVID-19 infections have reached the million mark and deaths from COVID have surpassed 200,000. These figures seem to be no match for people's desire to gather, even amid mounting frustration. Frustration is a powerful emotion.

Like many, I too am frustrated with the linear living of picking up groceries in the parking lot, coming home only to watch the “Top 10” movies on Netflix; all after a day filled with Zoom meetings. Let’s be honest, it gets very tempting to break up the monotony of COVID life. And what better excuse to change the game than Thanksgiving. 

Many families have traditions tied to this time of the year. As Thanksgiving approaches, many people are making plans to visit friends and host family. I get it-you desperately want your aunt's famous macaroni and cheese, your momma's sweet potato pie or Pop's famous deep-fried turkey. Your mouth has been salivating for it and all the more now that you have Doordashed your wallet into a conniption. However succulent and savory all those vittles may be, I want you to hold fast. Don't let the frustration of your life cloud the choices of your life. 

Spending time with family may bring you the greatest joy that you have felt in quite some time; Seeing loved ones may provide you with profound comfort that has not missed your doorstep in months. All of these are good feelings; however, the risk of endangering your eldest family members, dearest friends loved ones who may have health challenges, is the greatest challenge in and of itself.  But let’s remember, our friend and family who have health challenges are highly susceptible to the effect of COVID.  Keeping all of this in mind, let’s do something different; Set off the gratification of gathering at the manifestation of a meal, for peace that you didn't pick up or pass along COVID-19. 

Think outside the box this year. Find ways to celebrate together, apart. Have mom mail you the famous dish for which she is known. Have your favorite aunt wrap up her signature casserole and leave it on the porch. Find ways to sure up a way to see them next year, if the Lord grants you life, don't let the frustration of being inside, and possibly alone, push you into a gathering with variables that could make you a victim. 

Happy Thanksgiving.